Revising my coaching declaration led me to three deceptively simple questions: What do I want to hold on to, let go of, and find more of? The answers can clarify who we are becoming and how we want to lead.

At Plebe Parents Weekend in Annapolis, my wife Wendy's summer behind the camera revealed something unexpected: how much connection and quiet sacrifice can grow between strangers united by one difficult purpose.

Not every box needs a check before you take the next step.

The Navy Alumni Golf Weekend looked the same as it has for decades. Viewed through a leadership coaching lens, it revealed something different: the power of belonging.

History makes the outcome look inevitable — leadership is living through the moment when it wasn't. A dive back into Washington and the Founders surfaces lessons on failure, ego, and setting the tone that still apply to leaders today.

I didn't pass my final coaching assessment. What that failure taught me made me a better coach than passing would have.

There's a beauty in following your own path and doing hard things. I saw it on full display at this year's Army-Navy game.

The kind of discomfort that shapes how you think -- and how you show up when it matters.

Golf and leadership share more than you think. Preparation, composure, and presence show up on the course the same way they show up in moments that matter at work.

The circle around the person in the middle